OT... OT...

Haiz... Now in new company is back to the good old days when I need to work OT almost everyday... felt so tired... Lazy to log on MSN.... Lazy to Blog... and Lazy to check out Mr Brown's Postings... Tired oh tired.... I wanna have a good day to rest...

爱情其实好象等巴士… …

梁朝伟和徐若宣主演的电影 --《每天爱你8小时》，里头有这样一句对白，“爱情其实好象等巴士，这辆你嫌没有空调，不想上。那辆你嫌人多，也不想上。好不容易等到一辆人少的了，你又嫌不能直接到达你要去的地方。于是错过了一辆又一辆可以乘坐的巴士，等到你着急了，想着随便上一辆巴士吧，却发现大多的车已经满员了，已经没有你的位置了… …”

对于这段对白，你有何感想？

人，总是贪得无厌，总是希望所拥有的是最好的，是最完美的。然而，却总是忘了问自己是否也一样完美无缺。在你要求对方的同时也请以同样的标准来要求自己；因为在你挑剔着对方的时候，对方也可能正挑剔着你。如果你总以为自己高高在上，无几人能匹配，一心想找个完美伴侣。那么，也请你做好心理准备，你的“完美”，或许就只能留待孤芳自赏。因为在你等了又等，内心憧憬着下一位会更好的当儿，孰不知已与许多有缘人擦肩而过… …

随着年龄的增长，心态不一样了；不再这样执著时，欲放宽择偶条件时，却惊觉，那些你曾认为条件还可以的人，却早已寻得另一个他/她，并且过着快乐幸福的日子。这才懊恼当初为何没有选择他/她，否则如今沉溺在幸福爱河中的人，应该是你！

朋友，如果你已错过了不少的巴士， 你是否仍要继续等下去，直到你心目中的理想巴士抵达？又或许， 在岁月蹉跎下，你打算随便上一辆巴士？我想，最佳做法，应该是在不完美当中寻找较理想的，这样才不至于一再错过适合的巴士并感叹不已；又或因为赶时间而随便上一辆巴士却因最终仍无法到达目的地而浪费更多时间，后悔不已。朋友，你又有何见解呢？

Happy Valentine's!!!

Today's Valentine's Day and LOVE is in the air. I wish everyone a Happy Sweet Valentine's Day.

It is not only a day for the couples but a day for you and your loved ones, including your family members and friends. Spread love around and make the world a better place to live in (",)

在这爱的季节里，将爱的种子散播开来，与至亲至爱的家人，伴侣，及好友共享这一天，让世界更美好…… 愿你幸福，快乐……

Arts or Arts of $???

Was chatting with a friend today. Am going to Singapore Borned LA Based Singer - Corrinne May's concert on this Sunday. Talking about the concert, everything's about $$$. Admin fee to be charged for each ticket. Buying a more expensive ticket? Chances are you need to pay a higher admin fee. It's seems that one is being penalised for catching a performance / an art show, etc which the ticket fee is usually not cheap . Collection fees also has to be charged even for collecting the tickets over the counter. Simply do not understand the rational. While Singapore is trying so hard to promote for Arts, I see that the Arts of $ is being promoted more vibrantly. When everyone is simply concerned and interested in the Arts of dollars and cents, I find it hard for the general public to be interested in the general arts. Or the message to be brought across is that, arts are rich men's stuff. If you can't afford it, forget about it...

Marching into Year 2006

Time flies, before I realised, I have already marched into Year 2006. There are some many things that are not fulfiled, or rather, left undone... I hope Year 2006 will be a fruitful year for all, including for myself. There have been quite a nos. of ups and downs in Year 2005 and I definitely wish that things will change for the better when stepping into the year. I wish upon the star, may Year 2006 be a year filled with peace, happiness, love and joy. HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

時光飛逝，不知不覺中已踏入2006。有太多的事未能實現，又或，未能完成……但願2006年將是個豐收年，對你、對我，皆一樣……在2005年有太多的起起落落，但願踏入新的一年裏，一切都會變得更美好。在星空下默許2006年為太平年，充滿著幸福，被愛圍繞著，到處都是歡愉的笑聲。祝願大家“新年快樂！”。

The "Orchard Road" Shopping area in the East

Tampines Mall & Century Square can be considered as the "Orchard Road" stretch in the East and I believe most people staying in the East would not disagree.

It was sure crowded in Tampines Mall on last weekend. I can't feel the difference from Orchard Road at all, as it was no less crowded than Orchard area. The crowd was terrible!!!

Friends always envy me staying in the East, saying that there are two great shopping malls in the region, Tampines Mall & Century Square. But the fact that, staying near the area do not mean anything to me, coz I hate crowded places. I do not like squeezing my way in the crowd, unless, I'm suddenly in the high spirits to do shopping, if not, often, I'll be turned off by the crowd. Esp, during festive season period, during the X'MAS!!!

Had not been my secondary school friend who had came back from Melbourne and requested to meet me there, I would not have step in the Mall at all on a Sunday near X'mas Day!

Don't believe me? I've got picture to prove...

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Why some people juz like to blow up things and make an big hoo ha out of it??? I don't understand...

Why some people is simply contradicting??? On one hand, she said she don't want to talk abt it, and argue; on the other hand, she put things up on the blog and scold people indirectly...

I have mixed feelings about blogging. Sometimes I think blogging is good esp. when one have the difficulty to talk face to face and yet wanna express his/her feelings and let the other party know what's on his/her mind. On the other hand, sometimes, I hate blogging, some people just like to post out some issues on the blog but it may be one sided story after all and yet affect other parties... Sometimes, we need to listen to two sides of the story. Worse of all, when the choice of words is so strong, it affects a relationship and it HURTS!!! The heart pricks and bleed non-stop, do you know??? I guess you never know...

But, I know, you are my friend, and I gotta accept you as you are... But still, it hurts... as I go through the cards that you have made for me in the past, I told myself, the one who written the card is the actual you, the one who written the blog post is the unusual you who is temporary affected by the many thought and worries. You are not as mean as the blog sounds, but guess I still need some time to recover...